I volunteer at an animal shelter so I get to be around animals still! It was fun for me to also collect rocks and precious stones, I still do a little bit of that. I also enjoyed reading fiction, writing in my journal, and baking; all of which I continue to this day. Thanks for the post! Listening to this blog reminded me of good times. I thought about the times when things were simple and life had endless possibilities.
When I was a child, I spent a lot of time creative writing and journaling, rock collecting, reading, listening to music and daydreaming. One of my major happy memories is spending time with my brother in his home studio listening and watching him and his friends make music. I loved to watch the whole process from writing lyrics to playing instruments. I love being around creative or philosophical people. I still journal in my spare time to deal with my emotions and I also still enjoy reading although my literary selections seem to be more selective as an adult. I particularly loved poetry and wrote a lot of it as a child.
I self-published through White Hall Printing a collection of poetry in As a child, I read almost anything. I would read as I had an interest in a topic. Now, I struggle with time to do those things. I feel guilty taking time to do things since I am a caregiver for my elderly father and work two jobs.
Strangely, I still have a rock collection but it has turned to collecting crystals. As for music, I still love it and listen to it almost every day unless I am in a horrible mood. I find myself asking if I should make my interests a profession or keep them separate? Anyway, great post. Almost every day I read your wonderful blog and articles; almost every day, I feel I can make it too, just like others who have made it with your help. But then, I remember I live in Italy…and no, here you can not just take your Firestarter spirit and turn your passion into a carrer; it would leae you broke, and living in financial insecurity.
Not for us living outside these countries. Bitter reality. But damn, I was proud! A couple of weeks ago, I was talking to one of my clients, Kelly, about a similar situation. Bar none. They inherently understand a truth that most adults have sadly lost touch with over the years: The joy is the reward. But sometimes it IS perfectly OK to pursue what you loved as a kid as a career, in adulthood. In other words — stop acting so much like an adult, and you might just find happiness. But despite the compromise talks, partisan tension remains high in Washington.
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On Dec. We will be cutting off all aid to these 3 countries -- taking advantage of U. My first instinct was to grab my phone and email these teachers right away to explain their clear grading mistakes. My son needed to learn how to speak to his teachers all by himself without me holding his hand.
At first, he resisted and said he wasn't allowed to question a teacher. I explained the importance of speaking up, as long as he is polite and respectful. I had a long talk with him and gave him pointers for how to approach his teachers. He came home the next day with a big smile on his face. It turned out that he was right about both assignments, and the teachers apologized for their errors and adjusted his grades. I was so proud of my son for handling this himself, and so proud of myself for realizing at this stage in the game that it is more important for me to teach him the skills he needs to take care of himself than me always protecting him.
So, how can stop doing everything for our kids? Here are some steps to get started on this whole new parenting perspective. Many parents try to live through their children because they are unsatisfied with their own childhood.
We also have to stop trying to mold our kids into something they are not. We will all be much better off if we love our children for who they are and support them. The only way our children will learn to do things for themselves is if we provide opportunities for them to learn new skills. This starts during pre-school when we ask our children to dress themselves and use a fork properly. With each new year, there are so many chances to help develop their skill set. The best way to teach our kids a new skill is to:. I would rather gradually teach my kids and not have to cram everything in on the way to college move in day!
As I demonstrated with the story about my son's grades, it is so important that our children learn how to speak up for themselves and communicate with authority figures and peers alike. We have to stop trying to clean up all their messes for them and protect them from failure. The only way they will grow is if they make mistakes and learn how to handle them.
I am so proud of my son for addressing his grading issue on his own, and so relieved that all of his problems no longer have to be my stress. Even if it is totally out of your comfort zone, try to let your kids experience activities without you that will help them build self-confidence and independence. Sleep overs, all-day sports or other competitions, camping trips, and sleep-away camp are some good examples. Last summer my son went off to sleep-away camp for four weeks, and it was very difficult for me. I cried for days worrying about him. But, you know what? When I saw him on visiting day, I was blown away by how happy he was and how mature he acted.
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I was petrified that he would pick up bad habits and become a rotten kid, but the opposite happened — he became an even more amazing version of himself. By adjusting some of our parenting techniques now, we can better prepare our kids for a successful life ahead of them. Freelance writer, blogger , and editor specializing in parenting, wellness, environmental issues, and human behavior. I enjoy analyzing everyday life using science, humor, and a passion to improve the world.
I am also an expert in simplifying science to educate others on challenging topics that affect our lives. I remember exactly how I felt when I found out I was pregnant for the first time. It was a whirlwind of emotions from excitement to anticipation, but also a lot of wondering if I was going to be a good parent. After all, as a first time mom, I had no idea what it even meant to parent. I read all the books and did all the research I could fit between naps as my belly grew bigger and bigger. I got this , I thought, and then you proved me wrong. You were born three weeks early via C-section.
We didn't even have our hospital bag or car seat with us because it all happened so quickly. You were already teaching me the first lesson of being a mom: From now on, we were doing things your way, not mine. I remember the first time you looked at me and said "mama," connecting that word to my face. I remember when I offered you food and you had enough so you shook your head "no," already so confident in your own opinions. I remember when you let go of my hand and took your first steps alone, tears running down my face because you were growing so fast.
There are days that I wish you could stay little for a bit longer. That you could fit in the crook of my arm while I sing you a song to calm you down after the dog knocked you over. I feel a little sad when I pack favorite outfits that don't come close to fitting you anymore. I find myself staring at the photos on my phone of when you were a tiny peanut, so new to this world.
Because seeing you become the person you are is magical. I know what your favorite color is because you love to dress yourself all in green. You spend hours in your room reading books and transporting yourself into different adventures inside your creative mind. You know the lyrics to songs I'm clueless about and you roll your eyes at me when I mess them up, already letting me know I'm embarrassing you.
I love the confidence you have when you run up the steps of your school with your giant backpack carrying all your projects, and you wave goodbye at me excited to learn more about the world. When we took you to your first movie--to watch your eyes widen at the magic you saw on the screen—and to introduce you to some of my own childhood favorites like Dumbo.
Watching your personality soar makes me look forward to what's going to come next. I cannot wait to be there for you when you fall in love for the first time, or when you need to stay up late studying for that important test. It only means you're growing more and more into yourself. And all the hard work we put in, all the sleepless nights we spent next to you and all the support we gave you, is giving you the confidence you need to let go of our hands and fly.
I'm in awe of who you already are, and I can't wait to keep watching you grow. But let's not fast-forward time just yet. Instead, let's enjoy today. Because today is what matters right now. That way we can be more involved in her interests and be able to chat about what we take away from the movie after. It also gives her confidence in knowing that she has a voice that can be heard.
One of our favorite choices? The new live-action Dumbo, because it not only opens conversations about being inclusive and putting family first, but it also encourages her to soar to new heights no matter what obstacles he encounters.
Like that time that we signed her up for soccer after school. Initially she was terrified of having to make new friends and the possibility of not being good at the sport. Being outside of her comfort zone made her more confident on herself and she enjoys those hours running after a ball so much that now every time we suggest new activities she's excited with the possibility of new adventures and discoveries.
When she's afraid, we share examples from characters we love. He was scared in the beginning but did it!
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Both hers and ours. We want her to know that our family is a safe place to be honest and heard. We want her to be comfortable around us to express herself openly so we can all grow together. It probably helps a lot that her dad is in the art world, so we have a walking encyclopedia of knowledge with us whenever we go to one.
We've already noticed how our daughter is inspired by what we see, and how her little sponge brain is absorbing all the knowledge we put in front of her. Bring home the new Disney live-action Dumbo adventure to share these special moments with your families. This article was sponsored by Disney.
Thank you for supporting the brands that support Motherly and mamas. I have a confession: I hate to say "no" to people. I'm a first-born daughter so perhaps it's just in my DNA to a be a people pleaser. I get a lot of personal identity value from feeling competent and capable. And, truthfully I love saying "yes.